Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Am back - Again

'I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day'.

- E. B. White


Hi and Good morning!!!!

I know I have been Missing In Action, am truly very sorry. I had my exams in the beginning of the month, then I wasn't feeling so good in the middle and now towards the end of this month, I have been working on some very important stuff concerning next year, which has been taking up all of not if not most of my time. All will be reveled shortly. Trust me keeping a secret is very difficult for me but just wait a little while longer. Hopefully before the end of this month or even in December I can talk about whats going on.

Otherwise, I must still complete my 30 day challenge, do some hair stuff and also some product haul.

For now, need to get my head back in gear.

Thank you all for your patience and taking the time to read my little baby when I wasn't around.

Blessings, Love and Secrets

Monday, October 31, 2011

My parents have been married for 30 years today!!!!

'A wedding anniversary is a celebration of love, trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity. The order varies for any given year'. - Paul Sweeney


Hi all,

So its a pearl wedding anniversary in my household today!!!!! Here are some pictures of my folks wedding 30 years ago, today October 31 in Lusaka, Zambia.

Signing the registry....
cutting the cake

awwwww.......
The wedding party....
So cute......

Had to add this photo coz my mom's shoe game was on lock-down!!!!!!! not to mention that Afro was fierce.
My parents and I - I am sticking my tongue out, but I was still cute!!!!! With my Buddha belly and all. Check my mom's hat y'all and my dad had my swagger, or maybe I got his!!!!!!
So my parents had three wedding ceremonies, one at the magistrate, one at Swapo headquarters in Zambia and then after they came back to Namibia, did they renew their wedding in a church. Also, since both my parents were in exile at the time, non of my grandparents nor family were in attendance, however, my fathers father did ask my mothers fathers for permission that those two could marry. And my mom still kept the letter. And she has a few that her parents wrote to each-other when they were courting!!!!! We are a family of letter writers hahhahaha lol.

ohhhhh, so what did I get my folks, well, I got my mom some silver and pearl earrings and well, for both my folks I got them some fancy drinking glasses even though my folks don't touch the sweet nectar, over here you can get alcohol free champagne, which they like. Its hard to buy for a man!!!!!! And he already has everything else, how many ties, watches, business card holders, coffee mugs, cuff links, wallets can I girl really buy?

So yep, that's it. In our house, celebrations go like this -January (New Years), March (mothers birthday), May (Mothers day and my birthday), June (Father's day), July (father and brothers birthdays - 26 & 27 ), October (sister and parents anniversary).Then Christmas is pretty close afterwards lol.

Blessings, Love and Celebrations.









Friday, October 28, 2011

Do you know about HAT?

'A vision is not just a picture of what could be; it is an appeal to our better selves, a call to become something more'.

- Rosabeth Moss Kanter


Hey all,

I cant believe I have been keeping this Facebook page a secret?!!!!!!!! I am sorry, Bad Queen, very Bad Queen. Anyways, HAT which stands for Hair's A Thought, is a Facebook page, that I live on!!!!!!!! Its like a natural hair forum where ladies come together to give advice, ask questions, give loads of support and encouragement. Its a fabulous page that I check almost every few minutes because some wonderful lady may have asked a question that I was thinking about or some new information is being passed around.

Apart from the fantastic information that is provided by the natural hair community, you can also post pictures of your hair styles, post videos and much more. There has been some seriously great giveaways, links to other resources and natural hair mixers like the one happening in LA on the 3 of December 2011. Check it out.... here is the link. Miss Woo Woo Woooo - Kim Coles (that's from Living Single - tv show I used to watch , which can be found on YouTube) will be in attendance and she will say a few words - she recently (well a few months now) went natural and her journey is both exciting, funny and seriously inspiring.

So now, the secret is out. Go to the Facebook page and have a look. Am very sure, you will be logged on for ages?!!!!!!

Peace, Blessings and HAT

Happy 25 to my little Sister!!!

'A sister is both your mirror and your opposite'.
- Elisabeth Fishel

Good morning all,

So today, 28 October, my baby sister turns 25. Here are a few photos taken over the years.

In kindergarten
24
her first tattoo - at 17.
dawn photoshoot
Berlin photoshot - Nathan Wright photography
Modeling

Fierce

Modeling shot
This years Lifeball party - Vienna

The two of us.
Happy Birthday babygirl!!!!!! so what can I say about my sister that wont get me into trouble (she reads my blog)...... well she is quite a rebel, fire-starter (in a good way) and wonderful human being. She knows what she wants and normally does whatever it takes to get it. Almost nothing scares her, and she has an inner strength that inspires me. Apart from being my sister she is also my best friend. She teaches me constantly, and always encourages me, she is my rock and my shoulder when things aren't going my way. She also tells it like it is.......Love you to bits.

Blessings, Joy and Sisters

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Day 19 - Random Thought

Good morning,

So I just wanted to leave you with my Random Thought for Day 19.

Ummmm so I recently dyed my hair jet black (Henna and Indigo together this time) and am wondering why it looks different since my hair is naturally dark brownish/black. Also, I was reading my horoscope last night and have began to also read that of the Cancer sign, since I was born premature and was supposed to have been born in late June and not May, thus making me a Cancer. My mom says, I am more Cancer like then Gemini, but I feel Gemini-ish. But maybe I feel Gemini-ish, because I have always believed I was a Gemini, so had I not known that then maybe I would feel like a Cancer. Maybe I am a Gemini and Cancer - a Gemicer???

These are the thoughts that keep me up at night.

Blessings, Joy and Zodiac

Taking a break again.

Hi all

So I guess you have perhaps noticed that my 30 day blog challenge has been lacking and well I have good reasons. See on the 25 Of October, 4 of November and 10 of November, I have my final exams. so I am preparing for that right now. Actually, I am preparing for the one next week Tuesday lol. I will try and blog when I get the chance but honestly, right now, the only thing on my mind is getting some seriously good grades and passing, so Blogging will take a back seat for now. Tough times for me lol.

Until then,

Peace, Love and Great Grades.

Monday, October 17, 2011

Day 17 - First pet


'Animals are such agreeable friends - they ask no questions and pass no criticisms'.
- George Elliot

Happy Monday everyone

So for my Day 17 challenge, I am going to do a blog post on my first pet. The picture below is not my old dog, but its what she looked like. Our first pet was named Fluffy. I think most dogs that look like this are named Fluffy.


Now, I dont remember how old I was but I remember it was in our first home in Windhoek, which was in Eros, so I guess I was in primary school and my parents let my siblings and I get a dog. We loved her. We adored her, we played with her and had her for a while. Then she died. And we actually, had a burial service for her and buried her nearby our area. We put stones around her 'plot' and all said a little something. I am pretty sure I cried.


Afterwards when we moved into our second home, we again had a few dogs always small dogs, and we had fish, birds, during our WWF heyday, (We were crazy for Saturday mornings wresting) - we had ducks that we named Chyna and The Rock ( my parents had converted an old plastic swimming pool into a duck pond) and we had the ducks wings clipped - there is a mystery towards the dis-appearance of those ducks that only 007 can uncover. We also had, much to the dismay of my white neighbors, but ummmmm we had some chickens and at one point we had a goat. But my mom only had it for a while before she slaughtered it. I am pretty sure that was the first time I went vegetarian.

We have never had cats. I actually like to look at pictures of cats and kittens, but I am scared of cats. And I don't trust them. And I am allergic, so is my dad and sister. Which works out fine for me anyways. But I still don't trust cats. I don't know there is something fishy about cats.

Another thing about animals and dogs in particular. I am scared shitless of dogs. I mean, we have had pets at home and all. But even then, I would be scared to come into my own home. Its not like I was bitten by a dog when I was little or something. Its quite strange, I have no issues with dogs being in the same room as me, just don't come close, don't sniff me, don't even look in my general direction. And please don't lie on my bed or sleep close to my bed. And in the morning, please don't come say hello and we can happily co-exist. Yet somehow, I get along with all the pets we have had and I miss not having a dog. Please don't get me wrong, I don't mistreat any animal, I am probably more scared of them then there are of me. It just takes me a while to really get used to having a pet. But animals scare me. Except for the fish I have now, which I have adopted as my own, since no one else feeds them.

Ohhhh funny story, we once had a dog that was gifted to us by my friend L. Anyways, this dog loved us to bits and we loved her (even though she was ugly. I shouldn't say that because All of Gods creatures are beautiful, but she was a certain breed that was ugly. She was a cute ugly small dog. Ugly in a cute weird kinda way. She was a sweetheart though. Just ugly - will ask my friend what kind of breed she was that way you get me) anyways she would get into the car when my dad would drive us to school. Problem? Dog would get car sick and would throw up in the car, Every. Single. Time. So every morning, after dropping us off, my dad had to come back and clean the car. 5 days a week. And it would get bad during the weekends if us kids went some place with the car. We tried everything with that dog, leaving her indoors (she would howl pretty murder, which had our neighbors thinking we were abusing her), we would rush out the door - only to find her somehow in front of the gate, or worse somehow she would slip into the car as us three would try to get in. And she would nip us if we tried to get her out. She was a smart dog, sometimes, she would just stand in front of the door and wait for us to finish. Patiently. Unfortunately we couldn't keep her for long because we were going camping one summer and would requires days and days with the car, long stretches of open road and a sick dog is not the way. Sometimes you can go for hours in Namibia without seeing a gas/service station and leaving her at home was not an option. So one Saturday morning, whilst my mom and I were at the shops, this old man and wife walked up to our car and ohhhh and ahhhed about our little Angel....... Lets just say, I don't remember if my mom told that couple about the dogs' special condition, but I do recall us not visiting that super market for a while.

I had another dog, that would bark and try to bite my boyfriend when ever he came to visit. My dad loved that dog. Actually, that dog was kinda sexist, she only ever barked at guys, never the girls. We lived near to our high school and a lot of friends would come over, so we ended up giving her to my aunt, where she still is today.

I had one, my last one (I had named her Chrissy - after myself) well, she and I would take my bike to Parliament gardens, after making a stop at the library, and we would cycle round the gardens, take breaks, she would sit and I would read. I would have food for her and spend hours just there under the shades, just me and my dog. She was pretty well behaved - like me.

I will eventually get another dog. I miss having a dog. This time I want a Jack Russell Terrier, like this one.

I shall Name her Lola Monroe.

Blessings, Joy and Pets.