Monday, December 20, 2010

Dear Santa!!!!!

Luck is believing you're lucky.

- Tennessee Williams

Hi Santa

So, this year, I was good really good. I was a little naughty but for most parts very good. I ate all my veggies,I exercised, I even fasted a few times during the year, I was kind, considerate, helpful and kept a positive attitude. So ummmmm yeah, here is my Christmas wish list..... feel free to send me everything or just a few things but please not less than 5 items. I have been really Really REALLY good and I can give you names of people who haven't, so there........I am just saying. I know people........

Firstly Nico my baby camera (which I love Dearly) needs a sibling and I really want to get him this I will even name her Niki!!!!!!!

My music player died a terrible death a few weeks ago and I want to replace it with this,

Hair Products - Everything from a denham brush, to hair milk, hair butters, Shea Butter, Henna etc.

Santa,

Sweden, need I say more.....


and some La Perla,

Some Chanel to go with the La Perla

some Mac cosmetics as well

also, some cook books,


and a White Mac laptop.

Yep, thats about it Santa. I am very sure, my previous mail was lost ( I don't know how seeing as I am now closer to you than last year when I was in Abuja) but I figured sending you an email message was the best way to go. P.s dont come down the chimney, longgggggggggg story. But I will have some 3% fat milk and chocochip with oatmeal cookies for you.


Afropean Queen,

you know, the good girl.

My Bucket list for 2011!!!!!

When people keep telling you that you can't do a thing, you kind of like to try it.

- Margaret Chase Smith


Oh my, well the year is almost over, 11 days to go actually. I cant believe this year has gone so fast!!!!!!!! So will post about all I have done this year before the end of this year, but for now, its on to my Bucket list. I decided I don't want to to have resolutions, just things I want to accomplish by the end of 2011!!!!! 29 things that I will cross out!!!!!!!


1 Travel - in no particular order, these are the places I want to go to: Goa, Mumbai, New Delhi, Paris, London, Cairo, Athens, Marrakesh, Oslo, Copenhagen, Dublin, New York, Barcelona, Amsterdam, Madrid, Seoul, Tokyo, Kyoto, Osaka, Antigua, Bahamas, Cuba, Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Seychelles and Brussels.

2 Get my drivers Licence.

3 Learn Swedish, French & Spanish.

4 Learn to play the piano.

5 Learn to play the guitar.

6 Get 3 tattoos (wrist, back and ankle)

7 Get 2 piercings (nose and Belly)

8 Visit a meditation retreat.

9 Get a pet - name her Lola ( a dog would be fab)

10 Go to concerts have a few people I would like to see.....

11 Visit Italy for a whole month - May (my birthday month)

12 Fly first class

13 Go on a cruise - hopefully a Caribbean cruise.

14 Learn wine appreciation.

15 Go skiing.

16 Participate in an impromptu snowball fight.

17 Take a proper cooking class. I want to be a domestic/kitchen Goddess!!!!!!

18 Go bowling.

19 Become a Cheese connoisseur. I love LOVE cheese!!!!!!

20 Finish and Publish my first novel.

21 Be in a commercial and get paid.

22 Spend a week at a 5 star spa. Luxury!!!!!!!

23 Create a You Tube video.

24 Swim with dolfins.

25 Ride a camel.

26 Ride an elephant.

27 Get my astrological chart made.

28 Food to try - Truffles

- Cheese fondue

- Oysters

- Escargot

29 Get my portrait painted!!!!!!!!!


Yep just a few things I want to accomplish in the next 12 months. There is another special one but that one remains close to my heart............

I cant wait to start crossing things off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thanksgiving

Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.

- Brian Tracy


Sorry for the delay in blogging but better late than never. So its Thanksgiving, even though I anm neither American nor Canadian (if they celebrate this day) I am Thankful, so here is what I am Thankful for.

My family, those close and extended, a friend told me long time ago, that our souls basically pick which babies we want to inhabit and which family we want to be a part of, so even though I don't always get along with my family, I guess, my soul knew what it was doing, so I am proud to be a member of my family.

My friends, old and new, they really are an extension of me and reflect my personalty and growth as a person, some people have come and gone from my life, but each and everyone left a mark in and on my heart.

My sense of self worth, this is pretty high up of this list because I haven't always felt this good about my my own worth and I had to dig deep and figure things out and now I know who I Am and what I want and expect from life, love and everything in between. I know my talents, my strengths and my weaknesses, I love my courage, my depth and my compassion, my passions, my creativity and but Most of All I am Grateful to just be Me.

My ex's, I am grateful to them because this year, I had to let go of someone I deeply loved for a long time and it got me thinking of all the men I have had the privilege to be with or date. They each have brought something into my life for which I am truly grateful for. I am a romantic and I always felt that to truly love someone is as close to God as you as ever get apart from having a child, losing someone and death. So I am grateful to have loved and know that I am capable of being in love and finding the right man for me.

My travels, I have been really lucky in that I have lived and traveled to some seriously wonderful places and I give thank that there are even more places for me to explore. I cant wait to get out there and explore. I am so happy to be a part of this world and live during these times and I just cant wait to see more of this amazing PLANET!!!!!!!

My camera, my baby Nico, I love him to bits. He is such a Diva, wont work with anyone else but me, I bought him the morning of my flight to Windhoek, just hours before I left Vienna. He will be getting a new sibling next year, because I don't want to spoil him and I think he needs a partner.

My body, wow, this is actually a hard one, but as I get older, I appreciate my body more and more. And this year, this ol girl and I went through some changes. I love my body and treat it with respect (not always as often as I should - moisturize and all dat), but I make sure to give it lots of love and tender care and I always make sure I smell good. I also give thanks for all my Perfumes (I am a total Perfume junkie).

My hair, this hair and I have been through quite a bit, shave then relax, then shave again, then cornrow then shave and then just let the hair do its own thing for a while and then put braids in. But my hair has grown so beautifully, strong and shinny and curly. It gets better and better and I just love it. I am truly grateful to have this hair that I have on my head.

I am also grateful for technology, food, shoes, music, my laptop (which was a gift from my folks), my clothes, and so much more. Much Much Much More!!!!!!!!!!!

I am truly Grateful for my Creator, I do often struggle with my faith , but I am always Grateful to be alive and be able to live the life that I do and be on my particular journey and path. I know he walks along side me and is always with me and that HE created me uniquely and for that I am eternally Grateful.

So yep, thats it, I am sure there should be more than I am Grateful more but I just cant really think right now, will leave it as is.

Peace and Love

Blessings and Light

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Pictures Of Stockholm part 1

The most beautiful thing in the world is, precisely, the conjunction of learning and inspiration. Oh, the passion for research and the joy of discovery!

- Wanda Landowska








Hi all, I finally have some pictures of Stockholm and I am gonna share them with you guys. Enjoy!!!!!!!!! I will still take more pictures as the winter begins. But for now enjoy..........

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just me playing with the Camera.
Night out in Abuja.
Black and white. Love the hair and earrings of this photo.
My hair was braided in Abuja the week for before I flew to Stockholm and I Love this hairstyle!!!!!!
I am totally at peace in this moment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love my hair like this!!!!!!!!!!

Friday, October 15, 2010

Vision Boards, Prayer, Faith and Belief All Work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What you focus on expands, and when you focus on the goodness in your life, you create more of it. Opportunities, relationships, even money flowed my way when I learned to be grateful no matter what happened in my life.
- Oprah Winfrey


Ok, so this morning after saying my prayers I decided to log onto facebook just for a quick check and I received a notification that I was a Carol's Daughter winner!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I had tears in my eyes, I was over the moon, I still even hours later cant believe I won. I am totally beyond happy.

So what does this great news have to do with Vision boards, Prayer, Faith and Belief, well.......I follow The Secret. I bought the book last year in November and have been using its teachings to turn my life into something magnificent and so far its worked.
- I have received money
- books
- travel
- moved locations
- love (myself and others)
- hair growth
- shoes
- weight loss
- boho black bag
and lots of stuff.

Basically, I am all about being positive and just focusing on myself and what makes me happy. Also Spiritually as a person I have grown as well.

It feels wonderful to know everything I want and need is on its way to ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blessings and Love

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Sweden

I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death.

- Robert Fulghum




Ok, sorry for the longgggggggggggg break between posts but it was so difficult trying to upload pictures and blog from Abuja, but I promise to change my ways........

I am back in Europe now, after living in Abuja for 11 months, I am now in Stockholm, Sweden and wow is it very different. I will upload pictures very soon, I actually need to first leave the house before I do that.

So whats up with me, well......
I braided my hair before I left and I intend on leaving them this way for at least 4 week.( I also need to do some product shopping here in Stockholm)
I did the Master cleanse and I did that for 18 days, I lost 8kgs and I have manage to keep that weight off. still another 10 to go.
I am still doing pilates and cardio, but I intend on continuing with my Tae Kwon Do as soon as possible and also getting into Yoga.
And I am in Love. I have always been in love with this person and I am finally just facing the fact that for now he may be the only man for me.

Ok, for now thats it, will go out and take some pictures and uplaod those from Abuja as well as my Windhoek trip.